Sunday, April 02, 2006

Opposites Attract/ The Look Lounge

It's unnatural to suppress thoughts of love and sex. I refuse to pretend and or deny that which is as common (normal) to me as wet is to water. I love the beauty and sexiness of women. God knows what he created when he made woman. He made her to complete man. In other words, a man without a woman is not a whole man. Note: (This isn't a sexual orientation debate, I'm speaking on what I know and I have no experience in homosexuality, but I'm a certified expert (MY WIFE SAYS SO!) in loving and knowing women).

I find beauty in women of all sizes, shapes and cultures. The real turn on is intellect, spirit and confidence, but the initial attraction is visual. If the intellect, spirit and self confidence doesn't live up to the visuals then it's not gonna work out. What's on the inside determines the ultimate sexual experience. In other words it's impossible to make "love" without knowing the person intimately and in depth that you are making "out" with. Everything short of love making, falls short of complete satisfaction. That's why you go from person to person because you are only achieving temporary physical satisfaction. That's a cycle that never ends until you find love. Getting to know someone is mandatory if, "making love and being loved" is the goal. When U love someone the love making never gets old.

In order to find love, U first have to learn how to "love yourself". When U go from person to person, it's a sign that U lack a certain level of "love of self".


I know more men who are whores than women. With men we apply a different set of standards. Make no mistake if you are a man sleeping with multiple women you are a straight up whore! (I been there). And more than likely you are insecure and have not yet learned to love yourself. When U hear songs from The "Look Lounge" my point of few is always from the love perspective. Empty sex, is the foundation of a lonely "empty life". We will continue this conversation in the "Look Lounge" but for now more "grown man" lyrics of seduction from the song Get2NOU.



Get2NOU
verse 2

MC Hammer featuring "JD Greer and Pleasure Ellis"


I do all tricks/U just speak it from your lips
I use all of this/I do both lips
I like to take it easy/everything fit
Grade A baby/ r u ready for this?
My love run deep/I'm the one that U keep
My intellect deep/but I'm still your freak
You wanna get with me/than U best not sleep
I know all your friends/ and they be peepin' at me
But I'm wait'n on U/so baby make your move
I can see your smile /from across the room
I can see your face/I can see U in lace
I can see us having dinner/and we saying are grace
I'm a new man/ I been saved by grace
I changed my ways/and I slowed my pace
All of this is possible/it ain't no game
I need to get 2 know U baby/tell me your name

96 comments:

North said...

MC< nice reflection on women; and the important role we play; in our mens lives!!

Though, we are far more than a sexual entity; it is nice to hear from men; that we are eternally passionate entities...in which men, cannot live without(smiles.)

North

Ashburnite said...

That's probably the main reason I have taken a "hiatus" from dating and sex. We all need to figure out who we are and what we want before we can find someone else that we want to let into our lives.

nicole said...

Nicely written post, Hammer! It's a pretty hard lesson for most of us to learn, though. Loving ourselves always takes a back seat to everything else that's going on in our lives.

And you're right, you almost NEVER hear the term "whore" applied to guys. Frustrating double standard.

ps -- thanks again for commenting on my blog. I'm STILL blown away!! ;)

BakaGaijin252 said...

Yeah, I agree that people who abuse sex are shameful. You should only do that with one woman you're married to and never look for anyone else. Kind of an uncomfortable thing to talk about, though.

Miss Kitty said...

I really enjoyed this one, Hammer. You make a lot of good points here, and your writing's well thought out.

In my college comp classes, I ask my students what they call a woman who sleeps around. They all say, "Whore!" without a moment's hesitation. Then I ask them what they call a man who does the same thing. They look at me as if I have three heads. "Playa" and "pimp" usually get mentioned; it's the brave student who says "whore" and applies it to a man who sleeps around aimlessly (no pun intended).

I remind them to look in the dictionary. "Slut" is more appropriate for someone (anyone) who sleeps around without regard for him/herself or his/her partners. Whores charge a fee for what they do.

Anyhow, enough about definitions. Thanks for shedding some light on an uncomfortable topic! And thanks for your great blog, and for responding to my last post on here. Many blessings to you!

Levois said...

Hammer been a fan from way back. I saw the jewel of a post and I had to comment. This was good and it makes sense. This is my first time posting here and I've been knowing about your blog for a while. I look forward to reading more.

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Mariusz_James said...

Hi fam, you said in that blog that : In order to find love, U first have to learn how to "love yourself". NO, 1st of all you need to know CHRIST. How is this videos a good testimony ? Ya can't be luke warm. You need to get your mind in the right order fam, get yourself in the mindset of Christ. Take the time to meditate on your situation.

You said: " i'ma a changed man, i been saved by grace"

but all the while in the videos its talking bout taking this girl home from the club



www.holycultureradio.com (Christian hip-hop website)

All in love, your a talented brother but ya need to get your craft with God ..I can send you a christian hip hop mixtapes if ya want (im sending those to the street cats and peeps over the internet so if ya want just send me your email. Aight peace bro.

United In Christ
God Bless

MC Hammer said...

M James,
I pass on your offer of a mixtape. I don't look to music to learn of Christ. I do that through study, prayer, Holy Spirit and living. There are some songs that spark a fire. So many songs are sung but no lifestyle to match. U should read the blog from day one. It's about more than a "song" or "mixtape".

Textbook Postmoves said...

Hammer,

In all honesty, this video is causing confusion amongst believers and non-believers. You go to church, you know the Lord---for the sake of believers in Christ please explain the intent behind these video? Ministry, godliness, holiness, Christian living, edification of the church, evangelism---what? I'm very confused Hammer, you're on TBN one day and in the club the next day? I'm searching for understanding man.....

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Jesus was asked,
why Do U hang with these ungodly people? and he answered the self-righteous religious men, " I came for them". Now I say to U textbook, go out and help save souls and let God be God. Question, "is this your purpose"? U were saved to go around and ridicule and accuse those who profess Christ? Who where U saved unto? Many call his name and have no relationship. The devil knows, fears and trembles! I have no time to play. The war is at a critical point. What kind of soldier sits on the sideline and questions those who are out on the battlefield? U stay in Christian Dome where its safe and the rest of us will continue to fight!

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I appreciate your response, and I would've contacted you in private if I had your information. Yes, Jesus was ridiculed for eating with the so-called sinners, tax collectors and prostitues etc. but he wasn't down there doing "the bump" with them. He was delivering them and preaching the good news. When Jesus came around they started to act like Him, instead of Him acting like them. If you come into a situation where ungodliness is being promoted (ie nightclubs) as a Christian, you should 1. Promote godliness or 2. Get up outta there and expose it for what it is--UNGODLINESS. Hammer, when I stated that you were "causing confusion", I really mean that by watching your video alone a person can't tell you're representing Christ (saved and un-saved people). My initial post wasn't an attack---I truely want to understand what you're trying to accomplish with these videos. Remember fam, to whom much is given much is required. Let's reason together, let's break open the word of God and get some understanding "as iron sharpens iron one man sharpeneth another". Let's take this discussion offline (thawatcherkrs@yahoo.com) and prayerfully we'll be able to build each other up....

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